RSVP

I have a few huge fears for my wedding day, just a few ;)

First I am afraid that no one will show up, even those who RSVPed, or those who do show up will bring a friend that I was not aware they were bringing. We are having a sit down meal with escort cards and the whole to-do, so if people don't show up or they bring uninvited guests it will be super obvious...this makes me nervous. I have already had several people ask me if they could bring a friend or new boyfriend etc., I don't mind at all of course, but I can tell you that I really appreciate the thought it takes to ask. It has been so helpful, now their guests are guaranteed an escort card, seat of their own and a meal, not to mention it's just plain courteous of them to ask. Thank you friends :)

My second fear is that I will have no idea how many people to list at our final meeting with the venue. Like I said it is a sit down dinner and an open bar, this means that we must pay per person for food and drink. As of right now we only have about half of our RSVP cards returned to us and the listed deadline is Friday! Starting Monday I will be calling all of the people who still haven't responded. I am deathly afraid that there will be tons of people I just can't get a hold of and I will have no idea what to list as our head count. By the way our final head count is due February 26th :/

Can I just add that sending in a guest card could NOT be any easier? The stamp is on and paid for, there is a fill in the blank for your name, and it's already addressed. Not to mention the wedding is 23 days away, come on people, you know if you're free or not, just send in the card! ;)

Ok I'm done worrying. Moral of the story is..if you were invited to my wedding and haven't sent in your RSVP yet, please do so ASAP!